The only person that I can really write about is the collaboration and communication of my wife and I. Building a great marriage takes great time management, awesome communication and skills that you cant learn from a book. You will only learn this with on the job training with the word of God. The task is not finished yet, why because we are still married. Divorce is not an option so the show still goes on. The amount of time it has taken is 19 ½ years with 17 years of it really being married. Like I have already stated it takes a lot of collaborating to complete any task as a married couple. You have the couple it self, kids, a mortgage, all different kids of bills that my cause stressful situations that takes great communication to resolve. There are so many different things can happen during the course of this amount of time. From children going to school, the job you have to deal with, school of one of the two adults plus dealing with any personal issues that either of the two may have. Through it all the two must maintain their own identities plus grow their relationship as one. Learning different styles of communication will help you in a marriage because you have to not just learn you, but also learn your spouse. You must be effective within a marriage, if you don’t learn you and them you want because successful. New Light Christian Center is truly a place where you can come and Learn to follow Jesus Christ faithfully wholly and holy.If you don't learn to follow you will not be able to follow and rule with Christ.